Dr Vanessa

I’m Dr Vanessa, a Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience empowering people to take the bold step of understanding, navigating, and taking more control over the pressures in their lives. Before pursuing my passion for all things psychological, I was a Director across fast-paced, pressure fuelled, (but fun!) marketing agencies, leading teams and delivering big ticket marketing campaigns. Like many, I battled with the pressures and my own perception of what ‘success’ looked like for me in this environment, but primarily it sparked the embers of curiosity around how we navigate life’s ongoing pressures and how different this looked for everyone. 

After gaining my Doctorate in Psychology, I was hell-bent on bringing accessible and practical ways to navigate this pressure-filled world to as many as I could. But it was my early days working within military mental health which really inspired me, and those early embers quickly became an inferno. 

Whilst assisting veterans from various conflicts over many years, helping them navigate the unimaginable pressures and trauma’s they dealt with, I quickly saw the need for a more proactive and preventative approach to psychological health and performance, one that worked for individuals and forward-thinking organisations. 

Fast forward to now, and with 15 years’ experience in 1-2-1 coaching and therapy and training, I use my science-driven and unique Mindflex For Life Method across all touchpoints. I’ve seen first-hand that if I can provide people with the tangible WHY’s WHATs and HOWs - giving practical solutions and guidance - long-term positive change is possible. This supports people looking to sustain performance or create a life that feels good more consistently.
Clients, organisations, and schools continue to use me because of my passion and energy - I’m pretty down-to-earth and relatable (😊) – which helps when we are navigating such a complex subject. I’m a science-driven Psychologist so you will always find me helping you make sense of the brain and why it responds the way it does. 

I’m a Mum of two amazing (but loud) young boys who not only keep me grounded, but also remind me everyday of the importance of being able to not only make sense of surrounding pressure and my own psychological health, but also how I can help them psychologically navigate their way through life. All of which serves to emphasise just how important it is to look out for and nurture our minds as well as support those around us.  

In a world that continues to see mental ill-health rates rising globally, I passionately believe that everyone should have the building blocks enabling them to optimise their ‘Psychological Fitness’. In other words, Mindflex gives you the ability to proactively manage the way you think, feel, and behave, providing a key set of skills directly impacting performance and ultimately helping to make life feel good.  

To build and maintain psychological fitness it’s crucial to have a foundational understanding of the way our brain functions, which is the bedrock from which we can achieve improvements in performance and psychological quality of life. My ‘Psychological Fitness Fundamentals’ course provides this bedrock, and is delivered using the practical ‘Mindflex For Life’ method, a three-step framework for navigating the everyday pressures of life.  

We all deserve to understand how we can arrive at a place of robust psychological fitness, so please feel free to start the journey with Mindflex today. 

I look forward to working with you.

What is The Mindflex Method?

The ‘Mindflex For Life’ Method, is a 3-staged approach providing a logical framework for building and maintaining your Psychological Fitness potential i.e. how well you can proactively manage the way you think, feel and behave. Which is what we need to optimise performance and make life feel good. It also provides a great compass for navigating the complexity of the brains extraordinary capabilities and it’s unhelpful quirks. 

This is why I use the method’s three pillars of “Understand”, “Activate” and “Integrate” in my 1-2-1 work and any masterclasses or courses I deliver. My practical approach helps to recalibrate the unhelpful societal mindset of “the quick and easy fix”, which can so often undermine the problem it’s trying to solve and get’s in the way of achieving sustainable performance and feeling good about life.

Using “The Mindflex For Life Method”, empowers us to navigate the WHYs (understanding why we are responding the way we do), the WHATs (what behaviour-led and thought-based strategies and psychological fitness ‘life hacks’ can be activated) and the HOWs (how our psychological fitness potential can be integrated into everyday life). This equates to a more interesting, exciting and, ultimately, effective psychological pathway - with one destination in mind: to make life feel good and perform at our best.

What is Psychological Fitness?

Psychological Fitness is our ability to proactively manage the way we think feel and behave to optimise performance and help life feel good. How we think and respond to internal and external stimuli impacts our basic neuroscience, so understanding how we can use our thoughts and behaviours prepares us for the challenges we face – both big and small. 

My mission is to not only ensure that this more proactive and preventative mindset towards psychological health is deemed equally important as treating mental ill health, but to ensure that the term psychological fitness is etched into our everyday language. From school children, teenagers and adults, to organisations and their staff, I am committed to switching the narrative using a science-backed approach. It is through building psychological fitness we can all be better placed to help navigate this pressure-filled world and unlock our ability to optimise performance, and simply make life feel good.

The Psychological Wellbeing Continuum

The need to either build or maintain psychological fitness depends on where someone sits along the ‘Psychological Health Continuum’. But, wherever that individual currently sits, they will always benefit from an on-going investment in their daily Psychological Fitness skills.

Choosing to put in just a small amount of effort to enable psychological fitness in ourselves or others comes with a range of tangible benefits.

Managing emotions and enhancing positive emotional regulation

Being more present

Feel less stressed/reduce or mitigate burnout

Developing realistic & motivational expectations and achieving goals

Increased resilience

Achieving better sleep & increasing energy levels

Elevating performance

Dealing well with conflict